Why You’re Not Getting the “Yes” (It’s Not Because You’re Bad at Sales)

You can memorize every script, download every “perfect” talk track from Instagram, and binge all the objection-handling videos on YouTube…

…but if the foundations underneath your sales conversations are broken, none of it will work.

If you’re hearing a lot of:

  • “I need to think about it…”

  • “I need to talk to my spouse…”

  • “That’s a lot, I’ll call you back…”

…it’s usually not because:

  • You’re “just not a sales person”

  • You don’t have the right words

  • You need one more clever script

It’s because your beliefs about sales, money, and your role as a clinician are quietly sabotaging you.

In this blog, we’ll walk through:

  • What ethical sales actually is (and what it isn’t)

  • Why avoiding sales is actually less ethical

  • The 5 core beliefs that must be in place before any script can work

  • How to challenge patients’ beliefs without feeling pushy

  • Why your pricing, confidence, and patient results are all tied together

This is the stuff we teach our clients before we ever hand them a script—because once the foundation is right, the words get a lot easier.

Sales Isn’t Convincing—It’s Ethical Persuasion

Most PTs hate “sales” because they think of the worst version of it:

  • Pushy car salesmen

  • Slimy gym contracts

  • High-pressure, guilt-laced pitches

That’s convincing—trying to push someone into your point of view using logic, credentials, and pressure.

“I’m a Doctor of Physical Therapy.”
“I’ve helped thousands of patients.”
“You get 60 minutes one-on-one, manual therapy, exercises, etc.”

That’s all logic and features. It’s trying to convince.

Ethical persuasion is different.

Persuasion is:

Helping someone come to their own conclusion, for their own reasons, that taking action now is the right move.

You get there by asking the right questions:

  • How long has this been going on?

  • What have you already tried to fix it?

  • Why do you think those things haven’t worked?

  • What happens if nothing changes in the next 6–12 months?

  • What are you most afraid of if this keeps getting worse?

When a patient speaks those answers out loud, the problem becomes real.
They’re no longer being “sold”—they’re realizing.

Your job isn’t to push. Your job is to lead them through a conversation that helps them finally see:

“If I keep doing what I’ve been doing, I’m going to stay stuck.”

That’s ethical persuasion. And it’s absolutely part of being a great clinician.

The Hard Truth: You’re Letting Patients Stay Stuck

There’s an uncomfortable truth most clinicians don’t want to admit:

Many PTs are letting patients stay stuck because they’re afraid of rejection.

You’ve probably had this scenario:

  • Patient hasn’t felt like themselves for months

  • They can’t run, lift, play with their kids, or sleep well

  • You do a great eval, they clearly trust you

  • You get to your recommendation and… you shrink

You:

  • Downplay your plan of care

  • Whisper your price like it’s something to be ashamed of

  • Offer fewer visits than they really need

  • Say, “I’ll email everything to you, just call us to schedule”

They smile, say, “I’ll think about it,” and disappear.

In that moment you felt like you were being “nice” and “not pushy.”

But here’s the reality:

  • You weren’t protecting them from a big decision

  • You were protecting yourself from hearing “no”

You avoided 5–10 minutes of discomfort…
and in doing so, you left them in a life of discomfort.

That’s not ethical. That’s self-protection.

If you know how to help someone avoid years of pain, limited activity, and declining health, but you won’t develop the skill to help them say yes…

You’re not operating at your full potential as a healer.

5 Core Beliefs That Transform Your Sales Conversations

Scripts are the last 10%.
Beliefs are the first 90%.

Here are the five beliefs that must shift if you want more people saying “yes” to your plans of care—without feeling pushy or gross.

Belief #1: “Sales Is Gross” → Sales Is Service

Most PTs think:

“Sales is manipulative, greedy, and unethical.”

So they avoid it.

But think about it this way:

  • Is it ethical to let someone stay stuck in a problem you know how to solve because you’re uncomfortable having a deeper conversation?

  • Is it noble to avoid “sales” if that avoidance means their knee, shoulder, or back slowly ruins the next 10 years of their life?

Sales, when done right, is simply:

Helping someone make the best decision for their health, based on what they say they want.

That’s service.

And it rarely feels like “selling” when you do it correctly, because:

  • You’re asking questions

  • You’re listening

  • They’re doing most of the talking

  • They’re connecting the dots themselves

You’re not doing something to people.
You’re doing something for them.

Belief #2: “I Need This Patient to Say Yes” → They Need You More Than You Need Them

Going into a consultation thinking:

“I really need this sale. I need this to cover rent / payroll / my paycheck…”

…is the fastest way to tank your conversion rate.

Patients can feel that energy. It comes across as:

  • Desperate

  • Insecure

  • Overly accommodating

  • Afraid to ask hard questions

That desperation stops you from leading.

Instead, you need to walk in with this belief:

“This person needs me far more than I need this one sale.”

Because it’s true.

  • Their “yes” might help your business this month

  • But their “yes” might change their entire life

When you really believe that, you stop:

  • Tiptoeing

  • Avoiding the truth

  • Over-identifying with their fear

And you start asking the questions a leader would ask:

  • “You’ve tried PT before and stopped early. Why will this be different?”

  • “If you don’t change anything, where does that leave you a year from now?”

  • “Are you willing to carve out 2 hours a month to play with your kids pain-free again?”

When you detach from needing the yes and just play the numbers game (e.g., 5 out of 10 evals convert), you:

  • Show up calmer

  • Lead more confidently

  • And ironically, get more yeses

Belief #3: “I’m Selling Visits & Modalities” → You’re Selling Transformation

If you sell like this:

  • “You get 8 visits…”

  • “Manual therapy, dry needling, exercise program…”

  • “60 minutes one-on-one with a DPT…”

You’re selling features. That’s how commodities sell.

And when you sell features, patients:

  • Try to compare you to cheaper options

  • Ask, “Do I really need that many?”

  • Fixate on price instead of value

Instead, you must sell the transformation:

  • Sleeping through the night without pain

  • Running 5Ks again

  • Getting on the floor with their kids and popping back up

  • Hiking with their spouse on vacation

  • Adding years of active, independent life

You get there with piercing questions:

  • “If your knee pain was gone, what would you be doing that you’re not doing now?”

  • “Why is that so important to you?”

  • “How does it affect your work, mood, and family when you can’t do that?”

  • “What worries you most if this doesn’t change?”

Most PTs stop after one shallow answer:

“I want to run again.”

You need to go deeper:

“A lot of runners we work with want to run for different reasons—stress relief, mental clarity for work, weight management, or just feeling like themselves again. For you, what’s the real reason running is so important?”

Now you’re not fixing “knee pain.”
You’re helping them become a better, more present version of themselves.

That makes a $2,000 plan of care feel like a no-brainer compared to the cost of staying stuck.

Belief #4: “$2,000 Is Too Expensive” → Premium Pricing Is Part of Treatment

Common internal story:

“$2,000 is a lot. Patients won’t pay. It’s greedy. Real healers shouldn’t charge that much.”

Reality check:

You’re not describing your patients.
You’re describing your own money beliefs.

And those beliefs are:

  • Making you down-sell

  • Making you whisper your prices

  • Making you recommend fewer visits than they actually need

Premium pricing is not just about profit. It’s part of creating the treatment container where real transformation happens.

Why higher prices often equal better outcomes:

  1. People who pay, pay attention.

    • When someone invests $2,000, they actually do their HEP.

    • Compliance goes up. So do results.

  2. Perceived value rises with price.

    • People subconsciously associate higher price with higher quality.

    • “If this is $225/session, these people must know what they’re doing.”

  3. Premium pricing funds world-class care.

    • Great clinicians

    • Great environment and equipment

    • Time and space for one-on-one care

You can’t hire an A+ team, invest in the best, and give patients the time they deserve on a bargain-bin model.

And if your heart is for lower-income communities?

Premium pricing is still the answer.

  • Build a healthy, profitable premium practice first

  • Then use that profit to:

    • Fund discounted programs

    • Sponsor care through a nonprofit arm

    • Offer scholarship or pro bono slots

You’ll help far more people doing it that way than by undercharging across the board and starving the business.

Belief #5: “I’m a Clinician, Not a Salesperson” → Sales Is a Core Clinical Skill

This one sounds noble:

“I’m a PT, not a salesperson.”

But here’s the problem:

If you can’t influence someone to:

  • Show up consistently

  • Do the work between sessions

  • Prioritize their health over convenience…

…they won’t get better. Period.

At that point, you’re not really “treating”—you’re suggesting.

Sales skills are:

  • The ability to uncover real motivations

  • The ability to challenge self-sabotaging beliefs

  • The ability to help people commit to doing what’s best for them

That’s not separate from being a clinician.
That’s part of being an excellent clinician in 2025 and beyond.

You can’t heal the patients you never enroll.
You can’t change the life of the person who ghosts after one eval.

If you truly care about outcomes, you have to care about enrollment.

Bringing It All Together

If you’re struggling with patients saying “yes,” it’s probably not:

  • Your script

  • Your credentials

  • Your eval process

It’s usually your beliefs:

  1. Sales is service, not manipulation

  2. They need you more than you need them

  3. You’re selling transformation, not visits

  4. Premium pricing is part of creating real change

  5. Sales is a core clinical skill, not something separate from patient care

Once those shift, the mechanics of what to say become much simpler—and honestly, way more natural.

Want Help Becoming the Kind of Clinician Who Can Confidently Enroll Patients (Ethically)?

If you want to:

  • Stop shrinking when it’s time to present your plan of care

  • Learn how to challenge patients lovingly instead of avoiding discomfort

  • Charge what your care is truly worth

  • And build a self-sustaining, premium cash practice that actually changes lives…

👉 Head over to ClinicalMarketer.com and apply to work with us.

We’ll:

  • Audit your practice

  • Identify your biggest constraints (sales, marketing, operations, pricing, etc.)

  • Build a 3–6 month game plan to help you gain momentum, grow, and serve more people at a higher level

You don’t need to become a “sleazy salesperson.”
You need to become a leader who knows how to help people finally say yes to the change they’ve wanted for years.

Watch and Listen to the Full Video

For a deeper dive into a cash physical therapists’ journeys, make sure to listen to the full video: The Real Reason You’re Not Closing More Patients- And How Ethical Sales Fixes It

About Author:

Jordan Mather
Jordan Mather got started in the entrepreneurship game at 18 with a medical software startup that revolutionized the physical therapy patient experience. As CEO for 5 years, Jordan participated in top Startup Accelerator Programs, collaborated with a major Wisconsin hospital, raised over $250K in funding, and earned a spot on Wisconsin’s ‘Top 25 Entrepreneurs Under 25’ list.

Although the company eventually failed, it provided Jordan with invaluable learning experiences. He became passionate about designing world-class patient experiences and building efficient marketing & sales funnels for cash physical therapists. Utilizing this expertise, Jordan became the CMO of a well-known physical therapy media company, and consulted for and built marketing funnels for some of the top physical therapy business coaches.

Eventually growing tired of the typical agency and consulting grind, Jordan, alongside Max Zirbel, founded Clinical Marketer. They infused it with the hands-on support and mentorship that they benefited from in their initial venture. The company was a success from the start, aiding clinics in scaling to 6 and 7 figures in revenue. During its first launch, Jordan and his team met Dr. Ben Bagge, whom they later partnered with after helping him grow his business from $200K/year to over $1M/year in three years.
 
Now, Jordan is focused on empowering clients in the cash physical therapy space, sharing his accumulated skills, processes, and hiring strategies to help them increase their revenue and impact without proportionally increasing their workload.

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